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Ideas for how to find your “perfect” voice as a blogger

Several months ago I decided I wanted to pursue a different side of the Internet — it turned out to be “a whole new world”.

I have had the hardest time trying to “niche” down, trying to not “niche” too much and just be myself. I swear it is information overload and crazy to see just how much information is out there.

I read somewhere that we are exposed to over 3000 marketing messages a day.

That should make you think twice about how you are sending your message aka what and how you are telling your stories, post, blog.

What voice is your post portraying? Who are you talking to on the other side of that computer screen? Continue reading Ideas for how to find your “perfect” voice as a blogger

Tomorrow is NO Guarantee: The Benefits of Today

I swear if I read another article on “Procrastination…”

You ever notice when you buy a new car all of the sudden everyone else seems to have purchased the same new whip? What about when you are going through a difficult time and every song on the radio seems to scream your name?

I have this problem with reading. I become obsessed with whatever it is I am into i.e. marketing, writing better, how to make my content stand out, the next blog post idea or place I am about to travel. I begin to see everything in tunnel vision. Continue reading Tomorrow is NO Guarantee: The Benefits of Today

Retired by 30: Here’s how to achieve the New Rich — One Beautician’s Wigs to Wall Street Success Story

Everyone has been asking me what exactly do you do? — I never have a definitive answer and it always makes me feel awkward when people ask.

I use to reply, “I am in Finance and Manage Funds for Institutions,” People use to be so impressed with my all of my skills or that I could tie an expensive college name accrediting them too. Not to mention, I worked at some investment firms worth name dropping.

Couple all that with the fact I was a girl making more money than most individuals who were getting ready to retire normally only achieved after a lifetime of struggles.

Now, my response is usually a little something like, “Oh I’m an entrepreneur, and hummmm…. well I BLOG that’s what I do I read and BLOG.” Pretty much a conversation ender. No one cares and no one is impressed, crickets chirp. Continue reading Retired by 30: Here’s how to achieve the New Rich — One Beautician’s Wigs to Wall Street Success Story

Why being selfish will help you achieve CEO status…

Do you ever stop to think? I know some people who’s entire life is absorbed with sports, music, social media, their cell phone, or some other mindless activity.

I had a conversation with someone the other day who I asked, “do you not ever think.” They replied, “no not really, maybe in the shower.” — the same person who also told me they want to get rid of their phone all together or leave it behind when they go on trips. Yet, they walk around day in and day out consumed by what is going on with their phone.

Continue reading Why being selfish will help you achieve CEO status…

Does social media desensitize your judgement?

Recently, I decided to sell my house and didn’t really think too much about where I was going to live. I try to take things one step at a time.

But, every person I know has asked me where are you going to live? Why are you not going to move in with your boyfriend? When are you getting married?

I mean don’t you think I will tell you when I decide to do that? Don’t you think I have thought about the fact I am going to need to find a new home? Don’t you think I want to know when I’m getting married too?!?

Why is it such a big deal I decide not to share so many personal details (non — life changing details) about my day to day life? Continue reading Does social media desensitize your judgement?

NO More REGRETS: The ONE SIZE Fits ALL Question to ask yourself next time you make a decision

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Life has and will bring you to some interesting places with each decision you make. Lately, I have had the pleasure of being stuck around some “older wiser” individuals. All of the conversations end about the same — They made a lot of mistakes in life and want to give me a bunch of advice they think I don’t know.

 

I have to keep reminding myself they probably didn’t have “Google” growing up. Continue reading NO More REGRETS: The ONE SIZE Fits ALL Question to ask yourself next time you make a decision

Start FLAUNTING your FREEDOM to impact others in a “HUGE” way

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Do you allow others to tell you the truth or train them to be better liars?

Fact: If you want better relationships your reactions must change.

Everyone reacts differently in a given situation because of what’s inside their heart. Different people have different reactions because of the different baggage, relationships, or backgrounds that they have experienced.

Maybe you don’t always react the right way or do the right thing. But, if you feel uneasy then it’s the perfect opportunity to change. Continue reading Start FLAUNTING your FREEDOM to impact others in a “HUGE” way